betrayal of mind?betrayal of body?which1 can u stand by ur spouse?

[eugenetoh91]

Definition:
1.Betrayal of mind:your spouse had an imagination sex with other people.
2.Betrayal of body:your spouse had real sex with other people.

well, i came across in the newspaper seeing about this survey. sorry if this thread is quite obsene. but, i just post it, and want to know about you guys' opinion.
personally, i cant stand both, either betrayal of mind or betrayal of body.
the reason is, when you have a boyfriend or husband, no matter in what sense, you have to think of him, in any way.i may be a traditional male, thats a fact. But when your spouse had a imagination sex with other people, he or she may be started to have some dissatisfaction with you, as time wears on, he or she will start to betray you, body and heart.
so, that is why i say, i fervently cant stand both.haha.:))

well, this is just a survey and discussion. no offence.
what says you???:))

regards.

[Athersin]

I can stand the 1st one. but the 2nd one is totally out of mind. The latter would definetely mean that ur spouse already planning to dump u,no longer have u in his or her heart, thus having affair with others.This kind of adultery is very common in today society, where u could see more males would do this to his spouse, No offence...if this happen to me, i will dump him, give him 5 slap, end of the world! :mad

[eugenetoh91]

I can stand the 1st one. but the 2nd one is totally out of mind. The latter would definetely mean that ur spouse already planning to dump u,no longer have u in his or her heart, thus having affair with others.This kind of adultery is very common in today society, where u could see more males would do this to his spouse, No offence...if this happen to me, i will dump him, give him 5 slap, end of the world! :mad

haha!!:laugh..i difinitely agree with you.
but let say, your spouse just wanted to have some pleasure outside, he said he still loves you as he was. what would you react??
on the other hand, many people always say that, if my spouse does that to me, i would sure dump him or her, but as you really love the person, at the moment as he or she is begging you with full of tears, are you really going to dump him or her wickedly(as ur spouse may think) or will you forgive??
it is hard to say actually...:notrust
haiz.....

[senksiang90]

Betrayal of mind is acceptable to me as well. However, if it's really involving REAL body, i have to agree with Athersin. It's wrong. Totally man. This is because with having physical contact between one another, you have caused an affair to occur which can cause families to fall apart and relationships to break.
So, now, is it wrong for you to be picturing yourself having sex with other women or men when u r having one with ur spouse?
It is in a way wrong. but then again, we will nvr knw what we r all thinking about so jz zip the mouth and everything is fine. However, relationships like this, i presume won't last long.

Betrayal of mind is acceptable to me as well. However, if it's really involving REAL body, i have to agree with Athersin. It's wrong. Totally man. This is because with having physical contact between one another, you have caused an affair to occur which can cause families to fall apart and relationships to break.
So, now, is it wrong for you to be picturing yourself having sex with other women or men when u r having one with ur spouse?
It is in a way wrong. but then again, we will nvr knw what we r all thinking about so jz zip the mouth and everything is fine. However, relationships like this, i presume won't last long.

Betrayal of mind is acceptable to me as well. However, if it's really involving REAL body, i have to agree with Athersin. It's wrong. Totally man. This is because with having physical contact between one another, you have caused an affair to occur which can cause families to fall apart and relationships to break.
So, now, is it wrong for you to be picturing yourself having sex with other women or men when u r having one with ur spouse?
It is in a way wrong. but then again, we will nvr knw what we r all thinking about so jz zip the mouth and everything is fine. However, relationships like this, i presume won't last long.